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Tuesday, January 27, 2009

just when I think nothing will surprise me... something does

there have been a lot of deaths in and around kittyville recently - some I've mentioned here and some I have not... but they have all left me wondering what will happen with me after I die

do I want to be buried or cremated? where would I like my body put in the end - at the cemetery where most of my family (dead of course) is, or maybe find someplace else... or would I like to have my ashes scattered somewhere

not on a windy day though - FOR SURE!! we learned that the hard way!! YUCK!!!

it's all so confusing - but I think I might have it figured out

this morning when I was reading the news I learned about a nifty idea that I NEVER would have thought of... having your remains hurled into outer space!!

apparently that is what is being done with Gene Roddenberry and his wife... how is that for the ultimate departure from earth?! once you've lived long and prospered as much as possible of course!!

and as if blasting off into the final frontier isn't enough... we can send messages with them!! how fucking COOL is THAT?!?!

beam me up!!

not any time soon though, please!!!!!

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Friday, January 23, 2009

another TOTALLY AWESOME VIDEO...

I've been meaning to post this one for-like-EVER!! but lately whenever I sit down to post something here I completely draw a blank... I noticed this morning though that someone mentioned it in the comments on Amber's most recent post... and it reminded me

I'm sure you've all heard the song which is funny enough... but the video is hysterical!!

so here ya go...



have a GREAT weekend!!

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Monday, January 19, 2009

my pitch for the most unpopular post of the year award...

I'm quite sure this post won't win me any friends or nominations for most popular girl - but I just have to get this off my chest!!

all my life I've heard we should ignore race - see past color... we are all one race (the human race) etc. etc. etc.

so I can't help but wonder WHY suddenly a man's color is so important!!

everyone is so proud of the fact that we're about to have the first African American president... is it just me or is this NUTS?! I can't help but think color was the main reason this dude was elected

you all know how closely I follow politics (about as closely as I follow sports... which is ZILCH)

but it's hard to ignore when something so 'historic' is going down...

I can't help but think that an awful lot of people voted for him because they wanted to be a part of something - so that they can tell their kids and grand kids that they helped elect the first african american president

which is it? are we supposed to ignore race and see people for who they are on the inside - or are we supposed to exploit it for the purpose of 'making history'?

WHY was this man elected... it's either because people felt he was a better choice for the country than his opponent (like every other president in the history of America) OR it is because he is black...

NEITHER of those options is anything to be PARTICULARLY proud about...

that didn't come out right - I'm all for 'pride' in your heritage... what I meant was being elected because of your color is nothing to be proud of... electing a man because of his color (or to be a part of something 'historic') is nothing to be proud of!! and electing a new president is something we do every 4-8 years...

so WHY is everyone so proud and excited this time? WHY is THIS inauguration so much more important than any other in history?

what is the big deal?

someone PLEASE explain this to me!!

I thought the excitement was about the fact that MAYBE after all these years, people are FINALLY over the whole black/white thing... we are FINALLY seeing past color and accepting people for who they are!!

all I know is that if the big deal IS the fact that we're FINALLY seeing beyond color/race and just accepting people as people - we certainly have a funny way of showing it!!

seems to me we should all step back and see what kind of a job the man does before we go getting all excited - because so far the only CHANGE I see is COLOR!!

something I've been taught to ignore



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Friday, January 16, 2009

brrrr...

this was my outdoor thermometer at 7 o'clock this morning



in case you can't read that... it says -14!!

throughout the day it has improved some... here it is at what should be the warmest part of the day (around 3pm)



according to weather.com the wind chill is making it feel more like -2!!
I don't even want to know what the hell the wind chill was making it feel like this morning!!

so as you can see it's a little chilly in kittyville today!!

or as my Grandma would say - it's cold as a witches tit - whatever THAT means!

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Thursday, January 15, 2009

stuff...

Ohio friend is in NY... I'm hoping we get a chance to hang out a bit - but this time she's not here for fun... her step father is dying :(

not just some day in the near future... but it could be any moment now - so she has come to be with her mother (G)

her step father is basically the whole reason she and her family moved away... he's always been a huge pain in the ass - but that doesn't mean she doesn't love him... and he is the only grandfather her kids have ever really known

he is her mother's second husband - her first (Ohio friend's father) died in a motorcycle accident when Ohio friend was 10 - her mother was alone for a lot of years before she finally found this guy

when we were growing up - their house was like our house and G was like a second mother to me and my sister... she has never done anything but be a sweet, caring, loving person and it makes me sad that she has to deal with this two times in her life

I can't imagine what it would be like to lose Sam!! I can't even stand to think about it!! I don't know if I would ever recover let alone allow myself to fall in love again... it seems like a nightmare that the mere thought of is enough to make me cry - and the idea of having to go through that pain TWICE seems just too much to take!!

I'm glad Ohio friend was able to come back here and be with her through this... I guess that's another one of those benefits to having kids huh?

anyway... I hope his suffering ends quickly - for him and for his family
it sucks when this stuff drags on and on!!

oh well... I just wanted to get that stuff off my chest

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Monday, January 12, 2009

what to do....

we recently came into some money - which I've been meaning to blog about for months...

when my grandfather died he left me $5,000 - he left my mother considerably more... like 30X that - my mother has owed me and my sister each 5k since about 1991 - and my sister figured this was a good time to FINALLY get it back - so she asked her (something I doubt I would have ever bothered to do) anyway... as usual opening your mouth pays off... we each got our money back from mom

so a few months ago I got a check for $10,000

as I'm sure you guys know - ten thousand dollars doesn't go far... so we've been figuring out exactly what to do with it - first we decided $5000 is NOT getting touched!! (for now it will be locked in a fire proof box and buried somewhere in the back yard) haaa

we originally were only supposed to get the five - and all we were going to be able to do with that was pay off Sam's student loans and save the rest - because I wanted to save SOMETHNG!! - I'm tired of having zero money saved!!

but since we wound up with ten... I thought we can save the whole five and use the other five to pay off the student loans and get some other stuff we 'need'

of course MOVING entered our minds... with 10 thousand dollars we could have moved pretty much anywhere in the country and had a half way decent head start - but the way things are with the economy and the fact that (aside from the occasional tensions and stresses of renting from and living next door to mom) we're in a pretty good place right now...

roof over our heads - check
food in our bellies - check
money to pay the bills - check

*knock on wood*

lord knows anything can happen at any time... but as things are at the moment, we're in a lot better shape than a lot of people we know - so to leave a place with VERY affordable rent, that is not in danger of being sold or foreclosed on any time soon and taking a chance in a new place, with a new job and all that just seems... CRAZY - so we quickly took 'moving' off the table

so like I said - we decided to pay off what little debt we had... Sam's student loans - which we've slowly knocked down and have now been paying about $95 a month on for YEARS!! and at that rate would take at least another couple years to pay off the remaining $2000 - so the first order of business was to get rid of that!!

which leaves us completely debt free *knock on wood* - and I will very much enjoy NOT watching that chunk of money leave our checking account every month!!

so then we had to think about things we 'need'

at first I insisted we NEEDED new living room furniture... everything we have is used or handed down from family - EVERYTHING!!

even my tv trays are older than me!! they look pretty much like THIS... only with straight sides and with a gold and greenish colored fruit basket instead of the nifty camp or hula scenes - and mine are actually old... not reproductions

anyway I've always been ok with all our old stuff... I do like it better than most of what you can buy in the stores... I prefer yard sale shopping to mall shopping because, aside from giving old stuff a new home and keeping it out of the landfill... it has character!!

however... there comes a time in (I think) every girl's life where she wants her living room to look NICE!! I'm tired of it looking like an overly cluttered dorm room - BUT as much as I'd like new furniture in here and as falling apart as our current stuff is - with our cat I just can't see spending money on nice NEW stuff

my cat is great - she never poops or pees anywhere but the litter box... but she does scratch the crap out of furniture!! :(

so - new furniture... off the table

so what is on the table?

a truck... we 'need' a truck... something with 4wd (especially THIS winter... sheesh!!) that can hold large items (like the used furniture we're gonna wind up finding through craigslist) haaaa

that should be about $1000

Sam needs new glasses - $200

I REALLY miss my fishies and have been WANTING a new aquarium since we moved out of our old apartment and I had to get rid of the one I had :(
so I'm getting a new aquarium/fish/etc. - for now I'll be happy with a 20 gallon - the whole setup should be about $200

ok so that is not a need... but I don't care!!

a closet... we plan on building a closet at the far end of our 'living room' (where our old computer was before we moved it into the bedroom) - we NEED more storage space!! this house is really not bad but the one thing it's lacking is CLOSETS

by lacking I mean it has NONE!!

if we're in this place for the long haul and I'm not getting new furniture then I would very much like to get rid of some of the giant old pieces we have... such as two very large end tables (that open up for storage) and a foot locker which I keep most of my craft/art stuff in... sure it holds the stuff so it's not all scattered around the house... but it's hard to organize that way and organization is key if you ever plan on starting let alone finishing a project...

and focusing more on crafty/art stuff is one of my main goals this year!!

soooooooooooo

build closet - about $200 for materials including a circular saw (we already have the doors... which we've had screwed together and been using as a room divider)

another thing that is bordering on want more than need is a new computer... it's a need in so much as our old computer is old and dying!! like REALLY dying... it takes a good 20 minutes just to get it started well enough to function - once it gets going it's ok... but it is sluggish and locks up A LOT - soooooooooooo

if a computer is a NEED (which I'm pretty sure you will all agree it IS) hehehe then we NEEDED a new one...

we decided on getting a laptop... and doing something to fix the old one well enough for Sam to be able to use it for his music stuff - or he will eventually build a new one for that purpose...

after what seemed like 4 months (but was really more like 1 month) of research and looking for something decent for the best price... Sam FINALLY decided on something!!

so now I'm blogging at you from my big (not so comfy anymore) chair with this nifty new laptop - which I'm slowly getting used to... I LOVE that it's portable and that I can sit right in front of the tv with it!! and I LOVE that when I need to I can just close it up and stick it somewhere where I can't even see it - so it's not beckoning me to sit down and waste time

some day I intend to take advantage of that too!! hehehe

but for now - I've been slowly installing some essential stuff and re-adding bookmarks etc.

I've decided NOT to take everything from my old computer and just plop it on this one... I kinda want to start from scratch - I always have all my old stuff on a cd if I think of something I need

anyway... new laptop (on sale) plus mouse (cause I HATE those pad thingies) and wireless router, altogether cost about $600 - actually I think it was more like $650... but I had $50 worth of gift cards

I guess that leaves us a little extra for cost overruns - which there ALWAYS seem to be

it's nice to have his loans paid off and be able to get some stuff we've been wanting/needing - and still be able to hold on to all of my original money from my grandfather!!

it's not much but it feels less scary knowing we have a little something stashed away

plus with the money my mother got, she's been able to get her property taxes up to date, put a new roof on her house (which was about to cave in!! seriously - while working on it, one of the roofers wound up with his foot in the attic!!) and replace the insulation and sheet rock in her bathroom and kitchen which had been severely damaged by the VERY leaky roof!!

she had a little fun at Christmas, flying my sister and niece out here and spending too much on dinner etc.

and she still has a pretty decent chunk of money - invested somehow where it's getting nice interest

but she knows the fun is done and she is back to her usual penny pinching ways - which is good - I feel better knowing she has some money stashed away... so she can work on getting her house back in decent shape, pay her taxes etc. and I HOPEFULLY don't have to keep waiting for the other shoe to drop!!

*phew*

I guess that's all for now =)

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Thursday, January 08, 2009

OMG!!

once upon a time they couldn't even show married couples sleeping in the same bed... granted that was a bit much... but I have to say - I think maybe things have gone too far



wha... huh?

a commercial for sex toys??
of course I can't help but wonder what she could have been whispering - maybe in a few years we'll have 'progressed' that far

anyway - yeah that's all I've got haaaa

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